This time of year can be hard for us summer babies.
I can’t be the only one feeling this way, can I? I think to myself every, single, September.
While everyone around me is excited for the autumn months awaiting us, I can’t help but feel as though I am in mourning – mourning the loss of summer.
During the summer, I have a tan, the days are longer, which motivates me to go out and socialise, I feel extra energised, meaning I am more likely to exercise – which in turn boosts my self confidence because physically, I look my best – my list for loving summer goes on and on.
Autumn/winter? Well, I do like cosy nights and cute jumpers I suppose? For me, I almost dread the months ahead, knowing that I will socialise less, my physical appearance will take a knock due to dry skin, eating more and exercising less etc, and the days are shorter, resulting in getting less done – talk about being a negative Nancy, eh?
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This weekend I bought some candles from tk maxx and my house currently smells of pumpkin spiced goodness 👌👌 I usually have a major low at this time of year, I really don’t like it when the temperature drops and that still rings true but there is something that is really exciting me about moving into autumn. Maybe it’s just the prospect of buying more spiced candles… 🤷♀️ 📷 @nataliamohl • • • #blondesandcookies #womenwhotravel #wheretofindme #searchwandercollect #stylehunter #asseenonme #trendhunters #whatiwear #lbloggers #stylediary #wearitloveit #inspiremyinstagram #streetstyleluxe #wearitloveit #dailystyle #instagramlab #girlgang #travelblogger #wanderlust
With nothing but hashtags stating #takemeback and #holidayblues plastered all over Instagram this time of year, I can’t be wrong in thinking that I am not the only one who feels this way. And, as it turns out, I most definitely am not the only one. autumn can worsen anxiety and depression, experts say. And SAD – that’s seasonal affective disorder, is a real thing.
Now, I am not claiming I have this, that would be a little extreme. I do of course enjoy some elements of the colder months – I just really, really love spring and summer, sue me.
However, this year I am determined not to allow my September blues to manifest itself until spring crops it’s pretty little head.
This autumn and winter I will continue to exercise when I can, each winter I find myself never excising and instead constantly reaching for chocolate in a bid to make myself feel better – not this year, nope, a new, less crap eating me is on the way.
We are all familiar with the concept of a summer holiday, but why not have a winter holiday? This doesn’t have to be two weeks in the sunshine, but a couple of days in a city I’ve never seen before might just help to rejuvenate my mood, Winter getaway, here I come.
Finally, I will set some goals. It could be something small like, I want to read x amount of books during these colder nights, or something more solid like I will see my friends at least three times a month. Either way, I will do things this winter, and it will be great.
For me personally, I don’t think I will ever feel entirely okay to wave goodbye to my beloved summer. Alas, by putting some of the above ideas into practice I am hopeful that I can make these next five or so months bearable.
In the words of Ross Geller, I am going to make myself happy.
Do you get down during this time of year? If so, what do you do to lift your mood again?
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