5 Men Reveal Their Secret Sexual Fantasies – And No, They’re Not Just Into Threesomes

Sexual fantasies are a good thing – they can take the regular bump and grind into straight-up, OMG-amazing territory, and apart from being like an X-rated porn movie that makes anything possible in your own mind, fantasies are also interesting when you want to get a peek into what really makes your guy tick.

So, just cos we’re nosey, we reached out to real guys for the no-holds-barred truth when it comes to the absolute hottest fantasies they usually keep to themselves.

Jason, 29

I’ve often dreamed about having raunchy sex with them both at the same time.

I’m quite traditional with the whole fantasy thing. I think my favourite sexual fantasy would be to have a threesome. My girlfriend has a really hot friend, who sort of looks similar to my partner, in a twin like way and I’ve often dreamed about having raunchy sex with them both at the same time. Not that I would ever mention it to my girlfriend though, she’d probably kill me! Its probably a grass-is-greener concept.

Mark, 23

The idea of a dominant woman really turns me on.

I’ve never actually experienced role-playing, but the idea of a dominant woman really turns me on. During sex, I actually prefer a woman to be on top. I find that during sex if I imagine that a woman is indifferent to my feelings, I’m more turned on. I almost want her to selfishly seek her own pleasure. I was once with a girl who pulled my hair when I was going down on her, and she even put her feet on my back. Those subtle gestures of selfish pleasure were sexy as hell to me, and I can’t help but incorporate those into my fantasies now.

Stephen, 26

I want my girlfriend to have sex with one of my mates while I watch.

Not only would I never ask my girlfriend to actually do this, I won’t even joke about it with friends, but I want my girlfriend to have sex with one of my mates while I watch. I don’t even want to participate, I just want to tell her to do it and enjoy watching. 

Damien, 23

I’ve been fantasising about her coming over in her tight sexy uniform.

I have always had a thing for a woman in uniform and recently a female Garda moved into my apartment block. Since then, I’ve been fantasising about her coming over in her tight sexy uniform, handcuffs in hand, ready to arrest me. She would have to be rough with me too; after all I’ve been a very bad boy!

Sean, 27

I’d undress her slowly then eat the food off her naked body.

I would love a girl to cook me dinner in sexy underwear but instead of using plates, she would lay it all over her. I’d start by undressing her slowly, then I’d eat the food off her naked body. That would be hot.

By Jennifer Conway.

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