Are You Being Stashed? This New Trend Is Seriously Crappy And It’s Probably Happened To You
Talk about ruining a good relationship...
If you’ve been dating someone for a while now, have introduced him to your pals and regularly post cute Snapchats of the pair of you together, you’re probably feeling like your relationship is approaching serious status.
But, what if he’s not been doing the same? If you’ve welcomed him into your life but you haven’t so much as met his bestie, you’re probably being stashed.
The word is new, but the action is not, and we’ve probably all been stashed at one point or another (if not doing the stashing ourselves…)
Being on the receiving end is a horrible feeling. You start to wonder if he’s embarrassed by you, or if he’s actually leading a double life and has a wife and kids at home. Why won’t he make it Facebook official? Why does he never post pics of me on Insta? It can eat away at your confidence and leave you doubting everything.
If you feel like you’re being stashed, it’s time to have the talk. You deserve better than to be hidden away like his dirty little secret. Have it out with him, and if he’s not willing to make you part of his life, perhaps it’s time to call it quits.
At the end of the day, we all deserve to be with someone who’s proud of us, right?
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