Louise Thompson Calls Out Trolls On Instagram After Cruel Message

'I wanted to actually question Ryan myself...'

 

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Louise Thompson hit back at trolls last night after she received an upsetting message on Instagram. The Made In Chelsea star who usually shouts about her healthy lifestyle and toned physique was left feeling rather deflated yesterday when one cruel message questioned why Louise’s boyfriend Ryan must long for someone with a “feminine body” after being with her for so long.

The message which the sender noted as something “her friend said about Louise” got the star thinking as to why this person felt the need to spread the negative message.

“To the girl who dm’d me thinking that I NEEDED to know they nugget of information, I DIDN’T. What on Earth was I going to do with that info except for read it, digest it, feel shit about myself for a bit, then hopefully realise that the negative opinions of others are only a reflection of their own self doubt. For a split second I wanted to actually question Ryan,” explained Louise.

 

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🌈 Sorry for pink bikini spam, but I want to share a little story…..⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ 💭 A person who spreads gossip is as bad as the person who starts the gossip.⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ I read a message in my DMs today. It read something like this….⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ ‘My friend was talking about you the other day, saying how much RYAN must long to be with someone with a feminine body after being stuck with you for so long. I want to let you know that I thought that was such an unfair thing to say.’⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ Can you imagine receiving that from a total stranger? ⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ If you really believe your friend was in the wrong then why don’t you take that up with them and tell them to DO ONE.⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ WHY SAY IT TO ME?⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ I recognised how it made me feel because I remembered something similar had happened to me before.⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ When I was at school a friend of mine told me that another friend said that she ‘didn’t think that I was pretty’.⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ It made me so MAD that a person thought it was a good idea to pass on that information as if it would bring our relationship closer. Words hurt ! Think before you speak – I really urge you to keep your negative thoughts to yourself, and that includes what you say on social media.⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ To the girl who dm’d me thinking that I NEEDED to know they nugget of information, I DIDN’T. What on Earth was I going to do with that info except for read it, digest it, feel shit about myself for a bit, then hopefully realise that the negative opinions of others are only a reflection of their own self doubt. For a split second I wanted to actually question Ryan.⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ Then I realised: ⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ I’m not going to be told by anyone else what my body should look like. If I choose to conform to what society deems ‘attractive’ or ‘feminine’ I probably would have got a boob and butt job decades ago. Thank god I didn’t, because it would be a permanent reminder of the cruel words of others.⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ Thankfully I can laugh about this now because I’m in a good headspace, but there are people who aren’t… and it’s no wonder why?⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ Fyi, what Ryan finds attractive is self confidence which comes from self love, not the love that you get from constant validation from others (or looking like a f

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Adding that it only takes one message to make someone feel upset or question their body, Louise explained that she received a similar jibe back when she was in school when another friend passed on a message that someone else thought she wasn’t pretty.

However, Louise soon realised that she was worthy enough and should embrace her individuality. “If I choose to conform to what society deems ‘attractive’ or ‘feminine’ I probably would have got a boob and butt job decades ago. Thank god I didn’t, because it would be a permanent reminder of the cruel words of others,” the 30-year-old added.

Lastly, Louise told her fans to remember before they type. Words have powerful effect and you never know what someone else is going through.

“Thankfully I can laugh about this now because I’m in a good headspace, but there are people who aren’t… and it’s no wonder why?⁣” Louise concluded.

We couldn’t agree more! Think before you type.

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